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10/3/16 at 01:14 AM 0 Comments

Living by the Word of God to Raise a Responsible Family

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How can you be sure that your kids and spouse are of good character and your guidance is working?

I want to talk about how modern technology has made it difficult for spouses to remain committed and loyal. I also want to talk about what parents can do to use modern technology like a text spying software, to make sure that they raise responsible kids.

Challenges of the Modern Lifestyle

I have been a woman of faith, and I always imagined raising kids the old way. I have always made time for my family and on Saturday nights, we would sit together and share our thoughts, whether they were happy, sad, fearful, selfish, or unfair. For me, this is a way of connecting, but things have been changing too fast.

In fact, I've come to realize that as my kids grow older, they are becoming distant and detached. I cannot put together the pieces of the puzzle all the time nor force them to open up. My husband is always at work and even while at home, he never leaves his cell phone. I admit that raising a family means working too hard to ensure financial stability, but when does one make time for family?

Besides, as a working mom who runs an online store and offers home delivery services, I had little time for myself. Life was becoming too difficult to manage at home along with a mobile workforce, which made accountability such a hassle. Using LG monitoring was not always convenient so I needed something I could access using my cell phone.

We Resorted to Using a Text Spying Software

About a month ago, I noticed how my daughter was too excited and busy with her iPhone. She said she was making new friends on social media (Instagram) and Facebook. At first, I didn’t worry about it, but then she began acting distant. She would hurry to her room, wake up too late, was often irritable, and soon began acting grown up and difficult to relate. I’m a mom, and I can tell when there are lies and secrets. I tried sneaking into her cell phone and she caught me, which only made things worse. My husband heard about it and didn’t say much at first.

My son was often on the bus heading home on time, but then he started coming in much later. He wouldn’t do his homework, would refuse to go to the Church on Sundays, and didn’t want to spend time with his dad either. My husband, thankfully, noticed that things were falling apart and we had a meeting.

He shared his idea of using an app XnSpy to keep track of everyone in the family. He said it was his way of knowing everyone was following instructions and at home on time while he was away.

It Became a Foundation of Supervision and Protection

With the ability to track our kids’ GPS locations and applying geofencing, we could remind them about returning home on time. Thankfully, there was nothing to worry about, and they were never lying about their whereabouts.

Instagram and Facebook are two places where kids love to make new friends. How safe are the strangers they meet? I could watch list suspicious numbers on my daughter’s cell phone remotely. I could read all her text messages and listen to her calls to those particular numbers too. I found out she was in a relationship with a teenaged boy. At first, I didn’t worry too much, but I had a religious talk about things she must not engage in unless she completed high school.

The good thing was that the app provided necessary information that gave us lead on what to do to talk to the kids tactfully. As the Bible says:

Ephesians 6:4 – “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”

Beyond a doubt, using text spying software proved betted than LG monitoring we had tried before.

It helped My Business Needs

Because my mobile workforce was always on the go, I felt there was a serious problem with unaccountable expenses on fuel. Xnspy helped me solve this problem. I could know where every delivery service provider in my team was at any time. Those who were lying, I laid off.

“Genesis 30:33 – “And my honesty will testify for me in the future, whenever you check on the wages you have paid me. Any goat in my possession that is not speckled or spotted, or any lamb that is not dark-colored, will be considered stolen.”

Whenever they texted me, I could see their current GPS location. Who knew a simple text spying software could go so far to provide comprehensive monitoring?

Overall, I believe using this piece of technology helped my family and me to live a life of transparency, honesty, care, discipline, and fear of God. It can also be helpful for those facing problems with dating and relations

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