Posted 4/18/14 at 9:19 AM | Karen Farris
We heard him before we saw him. Heads turned as his motorcycle pulled to a stop near the group standing outside enjoying the sun before the church service.
Eyes discreetly followed as he made his way toward the gathering. His pointy white beard, black bandana, and leathers were a glaring contrast to the folks in their Sunday best. Pulling off his jacket, he exposed a full length cross tattoo on one arm and a crown of thorns encircling the other.
He extended a meaty palm and started shaking hands. Spike was a traveling missionary. And today was our “divine appointment”. He’d been touring the country, stopping to listen to stories and sharing some of his own. He kept track of people and places in a small leather journal.
Around his neck he wore a spike. Fingering it, he said it was a daily reminder about the nails hammered into Jesus for him. The small group nodded quietly. Jesus had taken the nails for us too, but none of us had a 4” spike to remind us. Just then the pastor came bustling up and shook Spike’s hand welcoming him inside. The rest of us just stared. FULL POST
Posted 4/15/14 at 8:28 AM | Karen Farris
Posted 4/11/14 at 9:42 AM | Karen Farris
Taking a break from the waiting room, I walked down the hospital corridor. That’s when I saw her name boldly engraved on a large plaque over the double doors. Mrs. L. was wealthy enough to have paid for the entire hospital, so seeing a wing named after her wasn’t surprising. But what was unusual was our friendship—all those years ago.
It began on an unbearably hot day. The strawberry pickers had finished hours ago, I’d moved the irrigation lines, and now was cleaning all the picking buckets. Just then, I saw the dust billowing behind a car coming to our farm. I groaned at the thought of more u-pickers. I just wanted to take a shower and be left alone.
An older woman hopped out of the car with energy that defied her tightly curled white hair. She wanted to pick, so I grabbed a clean bucket. If this old lady wanted to get on her hands and knees and pick in the hot sun, who was I to stop her? FULL POST
Posted 4/9/14 at 8:29 PM | Karen Farris |
Looking for a sweet way to engage your children in the resurrection story of Jesus? Thanks to a terrific recipe posted on Cowboys-4-Christ, a breakfast treat and an exciting object lesson await your youngsters.
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Posted 4/8/14 at 9:45 AM | Karen Farris
The show’s title may be innocent but the scenes portrayed in NBC’s About A Boy (Tuesdays @ 9 pm) are not. Rated TV-14, the content isn’t appropriate for family viewing, even though the main character is just eleven.
The show highlights the life of a single mom struggling to raise her child while also attempting to protect him from worldly harm. She is ridiculed for focusing on her young son rather than on her own social life. Meanwhile, her son is harassed at school because he’s a “nerd” with an overprotective mom.
The playboy next-door neighbor is someone the mom would rather avoid, but when she needs a last minute sitter, he uses it as an opportunity to take the boy to a bikini party with heavy-drinking revelers. Even though the hotshot neighbor doesn’t have permission, he tells the boy about sex and gives him “The Talk”.
His hedonistic lifestyle of one-night stands isn’t hidden and the young boy often sees the parade of different women in their skimpy outfits. NBC is using tasteless programming to feature immoral behavior. For young viewers, it sends a message that sexual boundaries aren’t important and sex is a lifestyle of one-night stands and risqué parties. FULL POST
Posted 4/4/14 at 9:40 AM | Karen Farris |
It’s spring prom season—she bought a dress to impress the one she hoped would ask her. But then someone else asked, and she didn’t want to say “yes”.
Kevin was relentless. After every class he was waiting outside the door. His unmistakable scribbles on pleading notes were inside her locker. He’d call each evening after dinner. All he wanted was to go to the prom.
“Can I have your date, Pamela? Please say yes,” he asked sweetly with his halting speech.
What would her friends think if she went to prom with someone like him?
In her heart she knew she should. Down syndrome hadn’t prevented Kevin from loving life, or seeing school, friendships, and even proms as something he also deserved. Why her? Couldn’t someone else go with him? She desperately wished someone else would ask her. But no, this was like a cosmic trap set just for her.
When she couldn’t avoid his pleas any longer, she told him she’d go. The smile that lit Kevin’s face made it impossible not to smile back. She didn’t really know him. He was just a special needs kid she mostly ignored. Now she’d be spending an evening with him, dressed in a gown that she’d bought to impress someone else. FULL POST
Posted 4/2/14 at 10:54 AM | Karen Farris |
Years ago when I visited teens in their health classes, I warned about some preliminary medical research indicating that oral sex could lead to throat cancer. Now more recent studies are confirming that oral sex is increasing the incidence of head, neck and throat cancers.
HPV (human papillomavirus) is the most prevalent sexually transmitted infection. One in two sexually active Americans are carriers. Sexual intercourse, genital touching, and oral sex spread it. Most of the HPV issues have been limited to genital warts—and in the worst cases, cervical cancer. When vaccines were developed to help prevent HPV cervical cancer, medical professionals began urging children to be vaccinated prior to any sexual exposure.
But there is no indication that this same vaccine will help prevent the HPV virus from causing the head, neck and throat cancers they are now seeing in greater numbers—about 8,400 HPV-related cases each year. With so many sexually active people infected with HPV—and the virus usually clearing up on its own, no one seems to be too concerned—until they’re the ones dealing with cancer. FULL POST
Posted 3/30/14 at 10:58 AM | Karen Farris
As a nation, prayer has become a catchword, an easy offering to those suffering after a calamity.
We can say we’ll pray, but do we? In 1863, as our nation fiercely battled North versus South, President Abraham Lincoln issued a National Day of Humiliation, Fasting and Prayer.
He declared that it was our nation’s duty to pray as we recognized the “overruling power of God”. He implored the citizens, embroiled in the “awful calamity of civil war” to confess sins with the “assured hope that genuine repentance will lead to mercy.”
Lincoln stated that as our nation had grown in “numbers, wealth and power” unlike any nation ever had, we had also forgotten God.
“We have forgotten the gracious Hand which preserved us in peace, multiplied and enriched and strengthened us: and we have vainly imagined, in the deceitfulness of our hearts, that all these blessings were produced by some superior wisdom and virtue of our own.” FULL POST
Posted 3/28/14 at 10:04 AM | Karen Farris |
The wave of Facebook selfie pics that started in Britain quickly hit American shores. #nomakeupselfie photos flowed over social news feeds.
Women tagged their girlfriends to show support for cancer research. But it didn’t take long for the antagonists to complain that it was all useless narcissism—arguing that money will cure cancer, not selfies.
For those selfie haters, the British campaign used text message donations to support Cancer Research UK. Within 48 hours over a million dollars was raised. Here in America, the #nomakeupselfies aren’t about money; it’s baring our faces for the love of others. We care about those who’ve faced a debilitating disease.
The American selfie exhibition reflects a bare-naked truth—we all use some sort of make-up to cover ourselves. Sure, women like cosmetics and clothes, but we all cover ourselves with hopes, goals, and a future filled with our plans and expectations. Cancer strips off the coverings.
Cancer bares our fears. It forces us to face the reality of our limited earthly journey. Yes, cancer is the ultimate #nomakeupselfie—revealing the reality that we aren’t really in control. It often brings us much closer to the One who is. FULL POST
Posted 3/24/14 at 11:08 AM | Karen Farris |
A special follow-up for an incredibly special family....
Chris Lundberg knows what it’s like to serve in the mission field helping in the poorest of nations. Those are the kind of experiences that forever change your worldview. The dire needs he saw each day cut into his heart—especially the youngest among them.
As he shared those experiences with his wife Alexis, they wanted to help. They prayerfully considered adoption.
Adopting a child isn’t easy, nor does it always come with oodles of encouragement, as the Lundbergs soon learned. The needs are so vast—including single moms searching for families here in our own nation. The Lundbergs decided to work with an agency that would help find a birth mother who saw their family as the best place to raise her child.
With two active boys, a stable income, a nice home, and generous hearts of love to share, they prayed to be able to adopt a baby girl. FULL POST