POST PUBLISHED INApril, 2011
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ADHD: Disorder or Difference?
April 26th, 201101:19 PM ETThe word "disorder" conjures up images of illness, disease and serious disabilities. All parents want to see their child as the smartest, most capable and best liked boy or girl on the block. So why would they want to have a label attached to them that often coveys just the opposite--such as slow learner, under-achiever or Attention Deficit ... -
Q: How do I get my 20-year-old son to respect my wishes?
April 25th, 201102:30 PM ETI told my son he could live at home with me as long as he continued to go to college. I didn’t ask for rent. He just had to do his chores and help me around the house. One day when I asked him to get his clothes out of the washer and dryer (and off the floor) so I could wash mine, he had a fit. He can be very disrespectful. He said he was busy an... -
Out of Control Behavior: Should I Medicate My Child?
April 19th, 201102:52 PM ETThe recent death of a four-year-old Massachusetts girl from an overdose of medications for ADHD and bipolar disorder has brought the issue of medicating children for behavior problems to the forefront of public consciousness. While this sad case shows the extreme end of the issue, it reminds us of the fork in the road many parents face daily. W... -
Q: How do I teach my son to treat everyone kindly like Jesus would while at the same time stay away from certain kids?
April 18th, 201110:28 AM ETMy 11-year-old son is very easily coerced into doing the wrong thing by the other children. Unfortunately, the children he likes to befriend are those that tend to live on the wild side. I have tried to teach my children that we should accept everyone and treat them kindly as Jesus would; however, telling him not to play with these children contrad... -
How to Create a Culture of Accountability in Your Home
April 15th, 201103:53 PM ETThe father's voice on the other end of the Parental Support Line sounded exhausted and overwhelmed when he said, "I know you told me that I have to hold my child accountable, but what exactly does that mean?" It's an excellent question, and one that we receive often on the Support Line. You've probably noticed that we talk a lot about "acc... -
Is Your Teenager’s Behavior Normal?
April 08th, 201108:50 PM ETThe culture has changed, but teenagers haven’t. They are still focused on trying to fit in with their peers and to make sense out of life. But parents can get confused by their changes in attitude and the independence they seek, assuming their teenager is becoming rebellious. It’s normal for teenagers to fail to do their chores wit... -
Conflict With Your Teenager
April 08th, 201108:39 PM ETWhen parents avoid conflict with their teenager, they are avoiding some of the greatest teaching opportunities they will ever have. Does anyone like conflict? No. It’s not a fun or enjoyable experience; however it is necessary, and if used properly, conflict can be a precursor to change. It’s very unlikely that a lasting change will come... -
6 Things You Should Never Say to Your Child
April 05th, 201111:49 AM ETDo you find yourself saying things to your child during an argument without even thinking about it? Let's face it, it's almost impossible to be detached or objective when your child is in your face fighting with you. And naturally, it feels like a personal attack when he's saying rude things or calling you names. During those moments, it's all ... -
Q: Should I allow my 7-year old to have a cell phone especially since she is going to more sleepovers?
April 04th, 201111:25 AM ETI often hear the argument that even a young child should have a cell phone so if a problem should arise while they are at a sleepover, they can notify their parents. My answer to that is if a parent thinks there is going to be an issue, then don’t allow the child to stay overnight. Technology has allowed too much responsibility to be placed...
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