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Posted 9/1/16 at 9:35 AM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

Is Your Thinking Making You Miserable

Many clients come to Here-4-You Counseling frustrated that they can’t seem to turn-off their negative internal dialogue that tells them are simply not good enough, not likable enough, or that they just do not deserve to be happy.

We all have an internal dialogue and at times, our internal dialogue may cause us to misread a situation. For some, these errors in thinking rise to the level of “cognitive distortions,” where your mind convinces you that nearly everything that happens is somehow a condemnation or judgment on you. The reality is likely very different and much more benign than you perceive. Given the direct link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, these errors in thinking reinforce negative feelings and emotions, influencing how we act toward others. Unchecked, this causes problems in all of our relationships and feed our own level of depression, anxiety, and life dissatisfaction. Which means you may be making yourself miserable and damaging your relationships without even realizing this is happening.

Let’s say you see a friend in a store and they fail to say hello. You think, they must be mad at me… I must have done something to upset them. The reality may be that they simply did not even see you or were in a terrible hurry… or, quite possibly, they are thinking, “I can’t believe they did not even say hello to me… what did I do to make them so upset with me?” Our distorted thinking about a situation can create conflict and confusion. FULL POST

Posted 8/24/16 at 4:12 PM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

Finding Grant Funding Sources: Less is MORE!

“I need to apply to as many foundations as possible so that I can increase my chances of getting funded!”

“I’ve sent out hundreds of applications, but I haven’t gotten many responses. The few I do get are rejections.”

We’ve seen these types of statements many times. People come to us exasperated because their grant writing strategy hasn’t worked. The “throwing out as much as you can to see what sticks” strategy almost never works. Grant writing isn’t particularly difficult, but it is extraordinarily specific. As with many areas of life, the old mantra of “less is more” is very fitting when it comes to finding funding sources.

Applying to hundreds or even thousands of funding sources is not the best strategy. Behind all foundations are people and they should be treated as such. If you have been sending out hundreds of applications, your approach is not targeted. That approach is more similar to sending out junk mail.

Think about when you get “junk mail” and by that I mean those sales fliers that may have your name in them but are clearly not targeted at your wants and needs. What do you do with them? My guess is that they go directly in the recycling bin. How do you feel about these appeals? I wouldn’t be shocked if you said it was offensive or irritating, because we all have limited time (and often limited space in our mailboxes) and getting pieces like this wastes our time. With a mailbox full of junk, it can be difficult to sort out what is important and what is junk. FULL POST

Posted 8/4/16 at 1:01 PM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

20 Most Generous Grant Making Foundations for Christian Organizations

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The world of grantmaking foundations is constantly changing. A small foundation launched in 2016 can grow to a be an influential and significant foundation in just a few years. Likewise, a very large foundation today, may not even exist in five years. For this reason, we constantly emphasize the importance of foundation research. From the original 2010 version of this list of 20 foundations, only six foundations are still ranked as top twenty grant makers. That means 14 of the foundations listed below are NEW to this list.

The question of what foundations to turn to for funding is one that Christian ministries and churches ponder all the time. There are of course various factors to consider. The degree of compatibility between your mission and the aims of a foundation remains the most important consideration. But, it helps to know which foundations are giving the most, which have the greatest assets, which accept unsolicited applications – along with knowing a little about their overall purpose, the kinds of Christian organizations they fund, and the kinds of programs that interest them.

The following are the top 20 grant funding sources that are either Christian or who have a strong preference for funding Christian organizations. FULL POST

Posted 6/28/16 at 12:42 PM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

The Truth About Grant Writing

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We’ve all heard that line “You could get a grant for that!” Or even seen those late night commercials advertising how easy it is for you to get grant money to start your business. We get phone calls and emails from people who have been told “The Gates Foundations has millions they want to give away; you just have to ask for it!” or the ever popular “minorities can get millions in grants to start a business!” Don’t be fooled and don’t get swindled by pie-in-the-sky promises. With nearly 20 years of experience in grant writing, we have worked with many ministries and nonprofits to secure grant funding; however, there are some caveats to that.

Many have come to us with a distorted view of foundations and the grant funding market. And, unfortunately, many nonprofits are taken advantage of because of this illusion. With that being said, it’s time to address the truth about grant funding, and empower ministries in their pursuit of this illusive capital.

“The [Insert High-Profile Foundation Name Here] has millions they’re just dying to give away!” We hear this line a lot with all the various high-profile foundations: Gates, Warren Buffet, and others. The truth is that while they do have a large funding pool they are not handing money out like confetti at a ticker-tape parade. Bill and Melinda Gates created the foundation because they wanted to invest in positive changes for the world. The foundation is designed to help successful nonprofits grow, and because they have a prominent name, they get multitudes of applications which means securing funding from them is highly competitive. The best opportunity for most organizations is foundations in their community. FULL POST

Posted 6/16/16 at 11:12 AM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

The Keys to Grant Writing Success

Recently Nonprofit Pro featured a blog from Leigh Kessler where he relates fundraising to the marketing he does for Charity Engine. He recounts a story about a great promotion he was doing at a conference that ended up having little engagement: "In a pre-screened target audience of more than 4,000 people who literally spend every day asking people to give them money for their organizations, I only could find 1 percent to take mine!" Through this experience he reminds us that as fundraisers, we must be diligent and have well planned and executed strategies. These are the heart of fundraising in general but they are crucial to a successful grant writing strategy. But what does a well planned and executed strategy look like?

With grant writing, there are a few key areas that, if done well, will lead your efforts to success or, if done poorly, will lead to failure.

Before even starting a grant writing strategy, ensure you have a fundable organization. Even the best developed application to the best matching funding source is going to be a flop if your ministry is not well-organized. Do you have clearly written by-laws? Do you have a diverse funding base? Do you have a professional and polished website? What about your marketing material like brochures and newsletters? Do you have a carefully tracked budget? It is crucial that you address your ministry's fundability before approaching foundations for support so that your efforts are more likely to be successful. FULL POST

Posted 2/19/16 at 1:40 PM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

How big is BIG? And why does it matter?

Whether you are a seasoned grant writer or just starting your first application, there is one trap that seems to catch every writer. I have termed it the big BIG trap and it seems to catch one of our clients (or even someone in our office) at least once a month. (One more reason to have several people proof read your application before mailing it). It looks innocent enough, and may read something like the following, “With an ever expanding population, and over 12% of residents unemployed, Johnstown NY has a tremendous need for federal assistance.” On the surface, the sentence is fine. I have used statistical data to back up my request and stated my need. But what does the sentence really mean? How much is the population expanding, 1%, 2%, 5%? How often? What is the population now? How much is 12%? And how does that track with the state of NY unemployment rate? Or how about the national rate? From that sentence, can you tell me if 12% is a high rate? Or how many people are unemployed? So, exactly how big is BIG?

Well, I’m glad you asked. Because I can guarantee you the person reviewing your application will ask. When writing a grant, particularly when talking about statistical data and needs assessment, it is far too easy to speak in general terms even when using exact data. A well written grant has the ability to describe your organization, program and needs in a way that enables the reader to understand what you are doing and have a very clear image in their mind. If the reviewer can’t understand your need, why should they fund your application? FULL POST

Posted 11/5/13 at 3:04 PM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

Christian Capitalism

Are you familiar with the Parable of the Greedy and Mean Investor?

Perhaps you know it as the Parable of the Talents which is what most people reference. The Parable of the Talents told in Matthew 25:14-30 is one of my favorites for so many reasons. One reason I love this story so much is because, like all of the parables, there are a variety of nuances in interpreting the story. Another reason is because the verse, "Well done, good and faithful servant!" is a verse I keep at the forefront in my life. I try to guide all of actions by asking if this is how Christ would respond as my life expires. Lastly, growing up I had such a distorted and confused understanding of this section of scripture when I called myself an Atheist. Like many other Atheists and Agnostics, I saw a God that I did not want to know and that I knew would reject me even if I did tried to please Him.

Allow me to summarize...

Jesus describes a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted his wealth to them. To one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one, each according to his ability. Then he went on his journey. The man who had received five talents went at once and put his money to work and gained five more talents. So also, the one with two talents gained two more. But the man who had received one talent went off, dug a hole in the ground and hid his master's money. FULL POST

Posted 11/4/13 at 2:28 PM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

STOP Watching Churches Die

As a church growth and funding consultant, I receive phone calls and emails weekly from desperate and dying churches, and the question that I refrain from asking each of them is, “Why did you wait so long to do something?”

Are you watching your church membership wither away? Just watching… a very long and drawn out death… slowly draining away the last bit of energy and resources. You may know the main problems causing decline… you may even know the solutions. But by delaying action, solutions now sometimes seem like big problems and problems like simple solutions. So instead of digging out… you avoid conflict, dig in on the causes, and hasten the death toll. The youngest are the first to fall off… babies, children, teens… and then the heartbroken and devastated families perish with them. Buildings begin to empty, banks move in and start to foreclose in record numbers, but still nothing changes. Sadly, this is the state of many mainstream Protestant churches in America!

In recent years, churches have steadily declined in health due to an overall trend toward declining attendance, aging membership, and a steady decrease in giving. A Barna study on “How to Increase Giving in Your Church” shows that as of 2010, more than 25% of churches have average weekly attendance of less than 50 and nearly 50% have less than 100 people in weekly services. More than 80% of congregations note that the current recession had a negative impact on finances. According to the real estate information company CoStar Group, church foreclosures increased fivefold from 2008 to 2011. Overall, only 3 to 5 percent of those who donate money to a church tithe (give 10 percent of) their incomes. Clearly, many American churches have floundered in their effort to stay relevant, solvent, and vital as communities shift culturally and struggle financially. FULL POST

Posted 8/24/13 at 11:23 AM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

Love the Unlovable

Next week I will have a post titled “How to Stop the Violence and Reclaim our Children” that will be much more detailed and specific but I wanted to get this quick, more personal post out today.

With all of the violent incidents in the news the last week or two I wonder how contributive it was that so many national leaders from politics to the news media to Hollywood to athletes were so quick to excuse the behavior of Trayvon Martin as justified and condemn the behavior of George Zimmerman as racist? Are they encouraging young people to fight back against imaginary acts of aggression? Against racial injustices that are not really there? When they fight back against people who never fought first they are seen as attacking… this feeds the racism that our leaders say they are trying to stop. The race baiting is feeding a greater distance between the racist, creating greater animosity, and causing each to see the other as evil or criminal or stupid or some other terrible thing.

It is so easy to discard the people we see as evil, criminal, stupid, unlovable, addicted, uneducated, lazy... useless. It is easier to discard them as trash than to try and understand them… to try and love them… to try and love them… and to try and see the world how they see the world. It is so much easier to hate them than to love them. FULL POST

Posted 8/20/13 at 4:38 PM | Dr. Jeffrey J. Rodman

Get Equipped to Secured New Donors

Has God ever given you a BIG job to do but then you try to convince yourself that God changed His mind? Maybe you tell yourself it was your own mind talking and not God speaking to you… when you know it was the Lord telling you it is time to move.

I know this has happened to me. Has it ever happened to you?

Those of us working with ministries, nonprofits, and churches I think sometimes face a somewhat similar situation. You're getting ready to meet a donor to ask for a gift. Then you talk yourself out of asking. Why? You come up with seemingly solid reasons why you should hold off on asking, but should you? For Christians, I think it is important during these times to listen for what God would have us do in these moments.

In addition to prayer, there are some practical techniques we can use. I just watched a video I thought you might like that deals with this very issue. Marc Pitman (aka the Fundraising Coach) talks about preparing to ask a donor for a gift.

He has some great examples of how to prepare for a donor meeting so it goes much smoother. Check it out: http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4849219

I hope this video proves to be a useful resource for your ministry, and if you have questions about developing funding for your ministry, Contact Here-4-You Consulting toll-free at 866-437-3481 for information on how we may serve your ministry. We look forward to hearing from you! FULL POST

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