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Posted 8/18/16 at 4:35 PM | Audra Jennings

What kind of mom are you?

Part 1 of an interview with Hettie Brittz,
Author of (un)Natural Mom

Countless women get bogged down in the Pinterest-perfect image of what a mother should be. They feel guilt for failing at cloth diapers, dreading school plays and missing the days of going to the bathroom by themselves, and as a result feel they aren't a "natural mom." Brittz, however, shows readers the idea of a "natural mother" is a myth and explores four primary parenting styles, guiding them to discover the strengths they already possess. In fact, Brittz believes each mother's "imperfections" are exactly what makes her the perfect mother for her children.

Drawing from her years of experience working with children as a speech pathologist and adapting homeschooling to fit her own children, Brittz developed the Tall Trees Parenting Profile. Readers can take the free online test to discover their own unique Tree Types and begin to understand that they already are the mothers they were meant to be. Each type of mother is compared to a type of tree --- a palm tree, rose bush, pine tree or boxwood --- based on qualities the mother and tree have in common. By taking the assessment, readers can discover what chapters of the book to focus on. In the stories taken from Brittz's own experiences and the in-depth looks at "a day in the life" of four real-world Tree Types, moms have the opportunity to see themselves honestly and clearly and to find hope and grace. FULL POST

Posted 8/18/16 at 12:39 PM | Michael Bresciani

Review – Matt Barber’s “Hating Jesus: The American Left's War on Christianity”

Long before Matt Barber published “Hating Jesus” I was reading Matt’s articles online. I always marvelled at his writing skills which mimicked his skill in the art of pugilism, (boxing) the similarities were unmistakable. He always knows his opponents style and after sizing them up puts forth an amazing form that catches them off guard.

He dances, jabs, tests and seeks the weakness, then at the very best moment attacks with a fury of strength and focus to knock his opponent to the mat. This describes Matt’s boxing and his writing skills. I am familiar with both.

Co-writer Paul Hair is a prolific writer of both fiction and non-fiction. He is a former intelligence analyst who makes valuable “intelligence assessments” and “policy solutions.” His work can be found on line at top news and conservative sites like WND, Breitbart and The Daily Caller. A ghost writer Paul can be reached at his website or at paul@liberate-liberty.com FULL POST

Posted 8/10/16 at 1:41 PM | Audra Jennings

There's no such thing as a natural mom

There is no such thing as a natural mom
Hettie Brittz helps moms understand they are the moms they were meant to be

While motherhood seems to come naturally to some, many women struggle with feelings of failure and inadequacy, believing if they could only be like that mom over there, their lives and families would be much better off. Rather than wallow in guilt and "shoulds," renowned South African speaker, TV presenter and author Hettie Brittz wants moms to find hope and encouragement in (un)Natural Mom: Why You Are the Perfect Mom for Your Kids (David C Cook/August 1, 2016/ISBN: 978-0434710284/$16.99). "Every mom wants to be able to admit some aspect of motherhood does not come naturally and not all motherhood duties bring her fulfillment," Brittz recognizes. "The (un)Natural Mom book gives you permission to admit this and to find what you are natural at!" FULL POST

Posted 8/9/16 at 11:43 AM | Audra Jennings

What's really keeping your from enjoying a better marriage?

Part 2 of an interview with Rhonda Stoppe
Author of If My Husband Would Change, I'd Be Happy

"If my husband would change, I'd be happy" and "I'm falling out of love with him" are among several common myths that lead women to search for marital happiness in all the wrong places.

In If My Husband Would Change, I'd be Happy (Harvest House), author Rhonda Stoppe shares, with candor and humor, how to enrich the relationship between husband and wife (even if he doesn't change). Along the way readers will find many helpful stories and real-life examples from other couples and discover:


  • How to deal with unfulfilled longings
  • The secret to keeping your husband's attention
  • 10 keys to a happy marriage


Q: What is the biggest problem with believing our partner is responsible for our happiness? Where should we be looking to find happiness?

FULL POST

Posted 8/8/16 at 6:44 PM | Audra Jennings

Make your conflict count

Make your conflict count
New book helps couples deal with conflict to create healthy marriages

It’s a familiar scenario: He doesn’t understand what she’s really upset about, and she has trouble getting him to see her point of view. In every marriage, there is conflict. In their new book, Don’t Go to Bed Angry: Stay Up and Fight (Abingdon Press, June 21, 2016/ ISBN 978-1426790935/$14.99), Deb and Ron DeArmond give couples tools to fight fair when conflicts arise.

 “Conflict is not the real problem,” note the authors. “It’s how we deal with the conflict that determines where it takes us. Conflict can lead to discovery — greater insight and understanding of our partner’s thoughts, feelings and perspective — or destruction of the relationship. It’s up to us to choose which direction we will go: discovery or destruction.” FULL POST

Posted 7/25/16 at 5:17 PM | Audra Jennings

A Guide to Making Important Mother/Daughter Conversations Easier

A guide to making important mother/daughter conversations easier
Trish Donohue writes to moms who want to disciple through relationship

The relationship girls have with their mothers greatly impacts the women they become, and for busy moms in the thick of the parenting years that reality can seem overwhelming. Author Trish Donohue brings guidance for women who want to disciple their daughters but don’t know where to start in Between Us Girls: Walks and Talks for Moms and Daughters (New Growth Press/June 6, 2016/ISBN: 978-1-942572-77-0/$15.99).

As a mom to two girls, Donohue knows the kinds of questions women ask themselves when considering their influence on their daughters: Am I being a good example? What are the most critical life lessons and spiritual insights I should be imparting to them? Am I getting through to them? Balancing these concerns with the hectic nature of daily life can feel daunting, which is why Donohue wrote this guide filled with 26 gospel-driven talks, or “walks,” designed for moms and daughters between the ages of 7-14. Each walk covers a topic from feelings and friendships to work and modesty. Much more than a devotional, Donohue describes her book as a cheat sheet, making it much simpler for moms to connect with their daughters on a meaningful level and converse about their lives, the world and the hope they have in Jesus Christ. FULL POST

Posted 7/20/16 at 2:37 PM | Audra Jennings

What's the one thing you wish your husband would change?

Part 1 of an interview with Rhonda Stoppe
Author of If My Husband Would Change, I'd Be Happy

Do you know a couple who has been married for a long time and are still deeply in love? You might find yourself wondering what their secret is or how that woman was lucky enough to find such a perfectly wonderful man. However, in If My Husband Would Change, I'd Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe (Harvest House), Rhonda Stoppe shows readers the secret to a happy marriage isn't related to how "ideal" a spouse is, but rather having a relationship grounded in a love deeper than their own.

Q: Can you tell us a little bit about the inspiration behind If My Husband Would Change, I'd Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe?

My husband, Steve, is a pastor, and we are committed to help couples build marriages with no regrets through one-on-one mentorship, premarital counseling and teaching No Regrets marriage conferences.

For more than 30 years we have biblically counseled numerous married couples. More often than not, when wives get their husbands into our office, they are secretly thinking, "Oh good, now they will fix him, and then I can be happy." When a wife learns the secret to her happiness lies not in how well her husband measures up to her expectations, but in how well she loves God, she discovers the secret to her happiness in marriage. If My Husband Would Change, I'd be Happy is a resource to help wives learn this truth. FULL POST

Posted 7/11/16 at 1:02 PM | Audra Jennings

Between Us Girls: Walks & Talks for Moms & Daughters

Part 2 of an interview with Trish Donohue,
Author of Between Us Girls: Walks and Talks for Moms and Daughters


The relationship girls have with their mothers greatly impacts the women they become, and for busy moms in the thick of the parenting years that reality can seem overwhelming. Author Trish Donohue brings guidance for women who want to disciple their daughters but don't know where to start in Between Us Girls: Walks and Talks for Moms and Daughters (New Growth Press/June 6, 2016).

As a mom to two girls, Donohue knows the kinds of questions women asks themselves when considering their influence on their daughters: Am I being a good example? What are the most critical life lessons and spiritual insights I should be imparting to them? Am I getting through to them? Balancing these concerns with the hectic nature of daily life can feel daunting, which is why Donohue wrote this guide filled with gospel-driven talks, or "walks" designed to be completed one-on-one, and covering a wide variety of topics. FULL POST

Posted 7/6/16 at 10:32 AM | Audra Jennings

Don't Go to Bed Angry --- Stay Up and Fight

Part 1 of an interview with Deb and Ron DeArmond,
Authors of Don't Go to Bed Angry: Stay Up and Fight


It's a familiar scenario: He doesn't understand what she's really upset about, and she has trouble getting him to see her point of view. In every marriage, there is conflict. In their new book, Don't Go to Bed Angry: Stay Up and Fight (Abingdon Press), Deb and Ron DeArmond give couples tools to fight fair when conflicts arise.

"Conflict is not the real problem," note the authors. "It's how we deal with the conflict that determines where it takes us. Conflict can lead to discovery --- greater insight and understanding of our partner's thoughts, feelings, and perspective --- or destruction of the relationship. It's up to us to choose which direction we will go: discovery or destruction."

Q: How evenly matched were the two of you when you married to deal with the conflict you experienced? What influences played into that? FULL POST

Posted 7/1/16 at 2:16 PM | Audra Jennings

Dispelling the common myths of marriage

Dispelling the common myths of marriage
Rhonda Stoppe reveals the truth about marriage and helps wives live with no regrets

Do you know a couple who has been married for a long time and are still deeply in love? You might find yourself wondering what their secret is or how that woman was lucky enough to find such a perfectly wonderful man. However, in If My Husband Would Change, I’d Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe (Harvest House, August 1, 2015, ISBN 978-0-7369-6286-5), Rhonda Stoppe shows readers the secret to a happy marriage isn’t related to how “ideal” a spouse is, but rather having a relationship grounded in a love deeper than their own.

“Dating, courtship and planning the wedding are all glorious experiences for most women,” Stoppe writes. “But after the honeymoon, when the wedding gifts are in their proper place and life begins to happen, often the glorious experiences fade into the endless routines of to-do lists, juggling finances and learning to serve one another.” FULL POST

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