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Posted 7/25/16 at 5:17 PM | Audra Jennings

A Guide to Making Important Mother/Daughter Conversations Easier

A guide to making important mother/daughter conversations easier
Trish Donohue writes to moms who want to disciple through relationship

The relationship girls have with their mothers greatly impacts the women they become, and for busy moms in the thick of the parenting years that reality can seem overwhelming. Author Trish Donohue brings guidance for women who want to disciple their daughters but don’t know where to start in Between Us Girls: Walks and Talks for Moms and Daughters (New Growth Press/June 6, 2016/ISBN: 978-1-942572-77-0/$15.99).

As a mom to two girls, Donohue knows the kinds of questions women ask themselves when considering their influence on their daughters: Am I being a good example? What are the most critical life lessons and spiritual insights I should be imparting to them? Am I getting through to them? Balancing these concerns with the hectic nature of daily life can feel daunting, which is why Donohue wrote this guide filled with 26 gospel-driven talks, or “walks,” designed for moms and daughters between the ages of 7-14. Each walk covers a topic from feelings and friendships to work and modesty. Much more than a devotional, Donohue describes her book as a cheat sheet, making it much simpler for moms to connect with their daughters on a meaningful level and converse about their lives, the world and the hope they have in Jesus Christ. FULL POST

Posted 7/20/16 at 2:37 PM | Audra Jennings

What's the one thing you wish your husband would change?

Part 1 of an interview with Rhonda Stoppe
Author of If My Husband Would Change, I'd Be Happy

Do you know a couple who has been married for a long time and are still deeply in love? You might find yourself wondering what their secret is or how that woman was lucky enough to find such a perfectly wonderful man. However, in If My Husband Would Change, I'd Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe (Harvest House), Rhonda Stoppe shows readers the secret to a happy marriage isn't related to how "ideal" a spouse is, but rather having a relationship grounded in a love deeper than their own.

Q: Can you tell us a little bit about the inspiration behind If My Husband Would Change, I'd Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe?

My husband, Steve, is a pastor, and we are committed to help couples build marriages with no regrets through one-on-one mentorship, premarital counseling and teaching No Regrets marriage conferences.

For more than 30 years we have biblically counseled numerous married couples. More often than not, when wives get their husbands into our office, they are secretly thinking, "Oh good, now they will fix him, and then I can be happy." When a wife learns the secret to her happiness lies not in how well her husband measures up to her expectations, but in how well she loves God, she discovers the secret to her happiness in marriage. If My Husband Would Change, I'd be Happy is a resource to help wives learn this truth. FULL POST

Posted 7/11/16 at 1:02 PM | Audra Jennings

Between Us Girls: Walks & Talks for Moms & Daughters

Part 2 of an interview with Trish Donohue,
Author of Between Us Girls: Walks and Talks for Moms and Daughters


The relationship girls have with their mothers greatly impacts the women they become, and for busy moms in the thick of the parenting years that reality can seem overwhelming. Author Trish Donohue brings guidance for women who want to disciple their daughters but don't know where to start in Between Us Girls: Walks and Talks for Moms and Daughters (New Growth Press/June 6, 2016).

As a mom to two girls, Donohue knows the kinds of questions women asks themselves when considering their influence on their daughters: Am I being a good example? What are the most critical life lessons and spiritual insights I should be imparting to them? Am I getting through to them? Balancing these concerns with the hectic nature of daily life can feel daunting, which is why Donohue wrote this guide filled with gospel-driven talks, or "walks" designed to be completed one-on-one, and covering a wide variety of topics. FULL POST

Posted 7/6/16 at 10:32 AM | Audra Jennings

Don't Go to Bed Angry --- Stay Up and Fight

Part 1 of an interview with Deb and Ron DeArmond,
Authors of Don't Go to Bed Angry: Stay Up and Fight


It's a familiar scenario: He doesn't understand what she's really upset about, and she has trouble getting him to see her point of view. In every marriage, there is conflict. In their new book, Don't Go to Bed Angry: Stay Up and Fight (Abingdon Press), Deb and Ron DeArmond give couples tools to fight fair when conflicts arise.

"Conflict is not the real problem," note the authors. "It's how we deal with the conflict that determines where it takes us. Conflict can lead to discovery --- greater insight and understanding of our partner's thoughts, feelings, and perspective --- or destruction of the relationship. It's up to us to choose which direction we will go: discovery or destruction."

Q: How evenly matched were the two of you when you married to deal with the conflict you experienced? What influences played into that? FULL POST

Posted 7/1/16 at 2:16 PM | Audra Jennings

Dispelling the common myths of marriage

Dispelling the common myths of marriage
Rhonda Stoppe reveals the truth about marriage and helps wives live with no regrets

Do you know a couple who has been married for a long time and are still deeply in love? You might find yourself wondering what their secret is or how that woman was lucky enough to find such a perfectly wonderful man. However, in If My Husband Would Change, I’d Be Happy & Other Myths Wives Believe (Harvest House, August 1, 2015, ISBN 978-0-7369-6286-5), Rhonda Stoppe shows readers the secret to a happy marriage isn’t related to how “ideal” a spouse is, but rather having a relationship grounded in a love deeper than their own.

“Dating, courtship and planning the wedding are all glorious experiences for most women,” Stoppe writes. “But after the honeymoon, when the wedding gifts are in their proper place and life begins to happen, often the glorious experiences fade into the endless routines of to-do lists, juggling finances and learning to serve one another.” FULL POST

Posted 6/30/16 at 11:18 AM | Audra Jennings

Steve Brown calls readers to live honestly

Part 2 of an interview with Steve Brown,
Author of Hidden Agendas: Dropping the Masks that Keep Us Apart

We pretend hidden agendas are just for politicians, but we all have them. We're phony and afraid, and it's killing us and hurting those we love. In Hidden Agendas: Dropping the Masks that Keep Us Apart (New Growth Press/May 16, 2016), Steve Brown invites us to drop our masks and discover how God's love propels us into the real relationships we thought we'd never have.

Why do Christians do this? While they may begin their walk with Christ basking in the light of forgiveness and redemption, they soon feel the sting of judgment when they fall short, whether from their own guilt or the criticism of others. As a survival mechanism, they hide their failings to avoid pain and accomplish their personal goals, lying to themselves, others and even God. FULL POST

Posted 6/29/16 at 1:48 PM | Audra Jennings

Don't settle for survival in our broken world

Part 2 of an interview with Erik Guzman,
Author of The Seed: A True Myth

At some point, everyone will have a moment where they simply know something is missing in their lives. Attempts to fill, ignore or dull this void are never successful and only end up leaving them exhausted, confused and alone. These are themes explored by author Erik Guzman in his debut release, The Seed: A True Myth (New Growth Press/May 16, 2016).

This parable uses symbolism and vivid imagery to help readers think critically about the great lengths they go to in order to avoid the pain of living in a broken world, rather than accepting the peace and freedom the Gospel offers.




Q: What is the most genuine way to survive in a broken world like ours?

Give up on survival.

We desperately want to bring something to the equation besides our helplessness in a broken world. That's the reason we refuse to believe everything we need has already been provided by God. That's why we don't put down roots into God and let him fill our emptiness. We need to stop pretending we have it all together. We need to stop fighting for survival, open clenched fists and receive God's unconditional love and care with open hands. We need to stop being a bunch of posers. FULL POST

Posted 6/28/16 at 1:13 PM | Audra Jennings

Build a fireproof relationship with your daughter

Part 1 of an interview with Trish Donohue,
Author of Between Us Girls: Walks and Talks for Moms and Daughters

In Between Us Girls: Walks and Talks for Moms and Daughters (New Growth Press/June 6, 2016), Trish Donohue shares twenty-six gospel-driven talks to guide mothers through a simple, sustainable way to disciple their daughters. Reading God's Word together, asking one another questions, and being honest about their struggles, moms and daughters learn new habits and establish lifelong patterns for communicating about what matters most.

Q: You describe Between Us Girls not as a devotional, but as a conversation guide for moms and daughters. Tell us more about the format of your new book.

The format of the book is designed to take moms and daughters on a walk together: a walk that winds through the crazy terrain of girlhood, is guided by the truths of scripture and offers places along the way to rest and talk. Christian moms desire to be close to their daughters, but too often they find themselves lecturing and correcting --- or finally planning a special time together only to realize they aren't really sure what to talk about. FULL POST

Posted 6/9/16 at 10:31 AM | Audra Jennings

Men tend to suffer in silence, but they need to share their stories

Part 2 of an interview with Andrew J. Schmutzer
Co-Author of Naming Our Abuse: God's Pathways to Healing for Male Sexual Abuse Survivors

Male sexual abuse is increasingly in the news, from scandals in the Catholic Church to exploitations at Penn State. Yet books and programs about healing are still overwhelmingly oriented toward the female survivor of abuse. As men who experienced childhood abuse, Andrew J. Schmutzer, Daniel A. Gorski and David Carlson, authors of Naming Our Abuse: God's Pathways to Healing for Male Sexual Abuse Survivors (Kregel Publications) are uniquely qualified to address the healing process of male survivors.

In the book, each author shares his story, modeling for men how telling --- and writing --- their stories can play a significant role in recovery. "Writing helps the brain process the significance of what happened, not just the fact that it happened," Schmutzer explains. "Dignity is recaptured by remembering rightly, honestly and deeply. Writing honors pain by putting it in black and white." FULL POST

Posted 6/7/16 at 2:58 PM | Audra Jennings

Author shares essential steps to recovery

Part 2 of an interview with Crystal M. Sutherland,
Author of Journey to Heal

Survivors of childhood sexual abuse often feel like the walking wounded. They feel alone and afraid, unsure of where to start in their search for lasting healing. It becomes far too easy to believe lies that say they're worthless and true recovery is impossible.

Crystal Sutherland --- a survivor herself --- knows that a simple formula for healing from such a painful past doesn't exist. But that doesn't mean it isn't possible. For adult female survivors who want to progress from simply coping to living abundantly, Journey to Heal (Kregel Publications) guides readers through essential steps to recovery found in Scripture. Though candid and open about her personal journey, Sutherland avoids triggering descriptions. Instead, she offers stories of hope form other survivors and practical wisdom to lead you down a new path toward discovering the life of wholeness God desires for you. FULL POST

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